A Little Thinking..

After hitting the publish button on my last post, I took a minute to go back and re-read what I had posted.

As unusual as it sounds, I was taken aback by what I had written. Although, at the time it was written, it was nothing more than and ode to my sewing machine and my way of admitting that I was foolish for thinking I needed a new one, it was obvious that my heart was the one really talking in that post.

The more I listened to what my heart had to say, the more I realized some important truths.

Truth #1
... I had convinced myself that her knobs and dials were out-dated and unreliable. Sure that my sewing experience could be better if I only had all those digital displays and sleek buttons.

While I think it's important to be open to new people in our life, and potential friends, I think we need to be careful, as we risk taking those already loyal {and worthwhile} friends for granted. Blinded by the newness of new faces, new experiences and shiny things.

Truth #2
While sleek and flashy where it meets the eye, all those smooth talking displays and sleek buttons were housed by nothing more than plastic. While the very core of the [new] machine[s], was nothing but more plastic and nylon.

It's important to remember what really matters, especially in a friendship. We {and by we, I mean me...I} need to be cautious of the insincere and those I risk being hurt by. Especially when I have important people in my life, with good solid cores {hearts}. Those people that are sturdy, reliable and will still be for me down the road, when those plastic pieces {insincere} and nylon parts have begun to break down.

Truth #3
....I began by tearing things down, opening her up, and giving her a little affection...in the form of a nice thorough cleaning and oiling. Once that was done, I took the time to read through the manual and get re-acquainted. Really get to know my machine, for what it is and not only what I can do to make my sewing projects better, but so that I knew how to make it perform it's best as well.

This reminded me of the importance of really nuturing the relationships we already have. Giving it {and the people involved} the affection they need. Also, one must remember the importance of communication. Pull out that owners manual and make sure you haven't lost touch with this person who means so much. By doing so, you not only make things better for yourself, but allow them to be the best they can be as well. Because, after-all, isn't what what a meaningful friendship is all about?

In the end, I realize that I've spent much time in my life seeking friends, being distracted by those new sleek and flashy versions of friends out there, and ultimately getting hurt.  When really, I have the ONLY friends I will ever NEED, right here with me........and they have been here all along. Because those worth keeping in your life will be there when you call on them, and that familiar face should not be misinterpreted as out-dated and replaceable, but cherished.